This weekend was really hectic...rushing from one place to the other, back to back meetings and I had two masses to play for, one of which was a wedding which I couldn't afford to screw up since it was a once in a lifetime thing for the couple, sense the stress...
It is comforting to note that, amidst the buzz and the avalanche of activities, there was this particular learning point that I picked up. This point I believe would be instrumental in my future relationship endeavours and might be the healing remedy for any 'cracked' or 'broken' relationships.
The great remedy consists of 4 phrases...
"I was wrong..."
"I am sorry..."
"Please forgive me..."
"I love you..."
4 very simple but powerful phrases...reflecting one's love for the other- willing to eat the humble pie, putting aside his ego, for the sake of the other... Indeed, these 4 phrases are magical and will miraculously assist people in surmounting the most difficult issues in their relationships... Let us attempt to say it to the ones we have hurt and begin the healing process today.
Amen.
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The remedy may be phrases, but the real root is pride of life as you have mentioned.
ReplyDeleteThe ability to know that pride is in you and the ability to stop it. No by might, nor by power, but by His Spirit.
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